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The Look Book Goes to 500 Weddings

Lincoln Center invited couples whose weddings had been disrupted by the pandemic to renew their vows.

Photo: DeSean McClinton-Holland
Photo: DeSean McClinton-Holland

Charline Ogbeni and Taiwo Ajibodu (pictured above)
School counselor and factory worker, St. Albans and Bushwick

Who do you have with you there?
Charline
: My daughter, Sofia-Michele. She was a little distracted because one of the volunteers, who was wearing wings, was passing around bubbles. So she blew bubbles for the majority of the ceremony.

When did you two meet?
Charline: During the pandemic. I’d been trying to separate legally from my former husband, but the court system was too chaotic. To cheer me up, my friend introduced me to Taiwo.

Taiwo: She needed a shoulder to lean on. I can’t help but be a support for her during her trying times.

When did you know the other was the one?
Taiwo: The first time I met her in person, June 6, 2021. I saw her and I said to myself, That’s my wife.

Charline: When I forgot to leave my daughter’s breast milk at the day care. Taiwo came to my job to pick up the milk and dropped it off for her, then went to work. That’s Brooklyn to Queens and back to Brooklyn. I myself wouldn’t do that for anybody.

Any highlights today?
Joella: I really enjoyed seeing Eric Adams there. He got up onto the stage and said, “You folks make me want to get married.”

Monique and Damian Watson

Nonprofit program manager and electrician, Jamaica, Queens

Jordan and Rohita Land

Physical-education teacher and financial controller, Upper East Side


Barry L. Riggins and Joella Glaude

Retired and nonprofit fundraising manager, Cypress Hills and Riverdale


Any highlights today?

Joella: I really enjoyed seeing Eric Adams there. He got up onto the stage and said, “You folks make me want to get married.”

Leah Miles and John Seroff

Schools administrator and performing-arts publicist, Kensington

Colin Boothman and Deborah Lewis-Boothman

Teacher and adjunct professor, Prospect–Lefferts Gardens


How did you get here?

Colin: We took the subway from Brooklyn and got off in Manhattan. We weren’t quite sure exactly where it was being held. But we started seeing all these wedding dresses.


Deborah: So we were like, “Follow the white wedding dress!” Until one actually went the wrong way.

Robert Burrett and Vincent Wu

Imaging technologist and breast surgeon, Upper West Side

Brian Dailey and J.Q. Whitcomb

Fundraiser and musician, Harlem

Kaki King and Jessica Templin King

Musician and set decorator, Greenpoint

Maria and Max Sugerman

Teacher and marketer, Long Island City


How did you meet?

Maria: On the Coffee Meets Bagel dating app, which has this rule that if you haven’t spoken after a week, the chat will close. It did, but then a couple days later, I got a notification that Max had paid to reopen the chat. I figured, Well, he paid $2 and he’s cute. Okay. Now we joke that $2 can’t get you anything in New York City, but it did get Max a wife.

Joseph Morris and Rebecca Cardwell

Artist and nonprofit recruiter, Kensington

Sheryl Wilson and Jennifer Melendez

Fitness professional and health-care executive, Upper East Side

Sela Adegbile and Lucie Kruger

Server and clinical researcher, Chelsea and East Harlem


Where was your first wedding?

Lucie: I have a little confession. We’re not actually married. We’re just best friends. I told Sela, “We’re getting fake-married. There’s free Levain and Champagne.”


Sela: We had to hold hands and kiss and exchange vows. Which is funny because we’re the least touchy people of all of our friends.

 Pian and Jon Rockfeld

Teacher and nurse practitioner, Washington Heights

Mariely del Valle and Clarisa Alayeto

Teacher and charter-school manager, Mott Haven


How did you propose?

Clarisa: I ran the New York City Marathon and proposed to her at mile 20, which is right by where we live. I wanted to quit so many times, but I had to get there. I distracted her by asking her to get me a leg roller and then I got down on my knees.

Kem Reyes and Qi Wu

Pharmaceutical director and payment-operations manager, Sheepshead Bay

Anthony Schiesz and Chloe King

Real-estate agent and social worker, Park Slope

Susan and Isaac Alston-Voyticky

Circus artist-director and law student, Prospect Heights


Did you ever think you’d do something like this?

Susan: Oh, we’re planning on having five ceremonial weddings. Our first was traditional — church, band, white dress — but the next will be in California, and it will be a nude wedding. We both love being au naturel.

Angel and Mildred Aponte

Doorman and data-entry clerk, Glendale

Photographs by DeSean McClinton-Holland

Monique and Damian Watson

Nonprofit program manager and electrician, Jamaica, Queens

Jordan and Rohita Land

Physical-education teacher and financial controller, Upper East Side


Barry L. Riggins and Joella Glaude

Retired and nonprofit fundraising manager, Cypress Hills and Riverdale


Any highlights today?

Joella: I really enjoyed seeing Eric Adams there. He got up onto the stage and said, “You folks make me want to get married.”

Leah Miles and John Seroff

Schools administrator and performing-arts publicist, Kensington

Colin Boothman and Deborah Lewis-Boothman

Teacher and adjunct professor, Prospect–Lefferts Gardens


How did you get here?

Colin: We took the subway from Brooklyn and got off in Manhattan. We weren’t quite sure exactly where it was being held. But we started seeing all these wedding dresses.


Deborah: So we were like, “Follow the white wedding dress!” Until one actually went the wrong way.

Robert Burrett and Vincent Wu

Imaging technologist and breast surgeon, Upper West Side

Brian Dailey and J.Q. Whitcomb

Fundraiser and musician, Harlem

Kaki King and Jessica Templin King

Musician and set decorator, Greenpoint

Maria and Max Sugerman

Teacher and marketer, Long Island City


How did you meet?

Maria: On the Coffee Meets Bagel dating app, which has this rule that if you haven’t spoken after a week, the chat will close. It did, but then a couple days later, I got a notification that Max had paid to reopen the chat. I figured, Well, he paid $2 and he’s cute. Okay. Now we joke that $2 can’t get you anything in New York City, but it did get Max a wife.

Joseph Morris and Rebecca Cardwell

Artist and nonprofit recruiter, Kensington

Sheryl Wilson and Jennifer Melendez

Fitness professional and health-care executive, Upper East Side

Sela Adegbile and Lucie Kruger

Server and clinical researcher, Chelsea and East Harlem


Where was your first wedding?

Lucie: I have a little confession. We’re not actually married. We’re just best friends. I told Sela, “We’re getting fake-married. There’s free Levain and Champagne.”


Sela: We had to hold hands and kiss and exchange vows. Which is funny because we’re the least touchy people of all of our friends.

 Pian and Jon Rockfeld

Teacher and nurse practitioner, Washington Heights

Mariely del Valle and Clarisa Alayeto

Teacher and charter-school manager, Mott Haven


How did you propose?

Clarisa: I ran the New York City Marathon and proposed to her at mile 20, which is right by where we live. I wanted to quit so many times, but I had to get there. I distracted her by asking her to get me a leg roller and then I got down on my knees.

Kem Reyes and Qi Wu

Pharmaceutical director and payment-operations manager, Sheepshead Bay

Anthony Schiesz and Chloe King

Real-estate agent and social worker, Park Slope

Susan and Isaac Alston-Voyticky

Circus artist-director and law student, Prospect Heights


Did you ever think you’d do something like this?

Susan: Oh, we’re planning on having five ceremonial weddings. Our first was traditional — church, band, white dress — but the next will be in California, and it will be a nude wedding. We both love being au naturel.

Angel and Mildred Aponte

Doorman and data-entry clerk, Glendale

Photographs by DeSean McClinton-Holland

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