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The Look Book Goes to Miramar Yacht Club

Members and guests watched (and raced in) a weekend regatta at the 77-year-old Sheepshead Bay club.

Photo: DeSean McClinton-Holland
Photo: DeSean McClinton-Holland

Ted Wiedeke (pictured above)
Retired attorney, Bayville, New Jersey

Are you a member here?
No. This gentleman I sail with, Bud Brown, asked me to crew on his boat — they’re having a regional regatta here today. I’m a member at the Toms River Yacht Club in New Jersey; my parents joined that club in the ’50s, and I joined in the ’80s. My law firm was willing to pay for it because of the social advantages.

How long have you sailed?
Since I was 7. I’m 64 years old now. I’m still going up against the pros, but I’m not as strong as I used to be. You know, it’s funny — I had to write a paper in college about competition, about whether or not I was a competitive person. Initially, I was going to say, “No, I’m not.” But then
I started thinking, and I realized, Well, I race boats all the time. And I get pretty worked up if I’m not No. 1 in class. And when I drive, if someone passes me, I don’t really like that very much. And basically, I want to win at everything. I realized, Oh, I’m an incredibly competitive guy. And that hasn’t really changed. If I can’t make the boat go as fast as it can, I don’t want to be sailing it.

Danielle Ruttman

Attorney, Brighton Beach

Michael Paccione

Insurance manager, Toms River, New Jersey


Do you do any other sports?

My family actually races lawn mowers. We have nine of them, and we take them across the country to competitions. My wife and my kids and I all race. So do my in-laws. At our fastest, we can go 45 miles an hour. We’re going to a race in Maryland next weekend where over 100 lawn mowers will be competing.

J.P. Reardon

UX designer, Prospect Heights

Andrew Shabalin

Computer programmer, Brighton Beach

Judith Dahill

Retired high-school librarian, Chelsea

Tom Tolleson

Data engineer, Cypress Hills


How did you get into sailing?

I never liked anything about sailing or boats until I moved to Baltimore in 2007. There’s a boat in the Inner Harbor there called the USS Constellation. I was only in the area to meet a friend for dinner, but I started looking at it and realized it was the most amazing thing I had ever seen. I was hooked. After that, it was all boats and all sailing all the time.

Joseph Paccione

College student, Norfolk, Virginia

Daniel Wong

Advertising sales coordinator, Fort Greene

Cooper Voigt

Graduate student, Atlanta, Georgia

Marc Benson

Retired bus dispatcher, Howard Beach

Bill Cook

Retired data analyst, Dover, New Jersey


What are you here for?

The race. I actually belong to another club, the Nyack Boat Club, which is up by the Tappan Zee Bridge. I like this club a lot — it’s a cooperative, which means all the members have to work as well as pay dues. But the reality is there are some clubs that are filled with total assholes. The New York Yacht Club is like that, in my opinion — where it’s like you’d better be a trust-fund kid or you’re not getting in. 

Mary Kae Higgins

Realtor, Bay Ridge

Nasim Shamailov

IT director, Bay Ridge

Dino Casella

Retired Postal Service technician, Bay Ridge

Bud Brown

Retired inventor, Fulton, Maryland

Mindy Cashman

Nurse, Toms River, New Jersey

Irv Shapiro

Retired assistant principal, Flatbush


How long have you been a member?

For 60 years. I’ll be 90 next Saturday, and I’m still going. I teach, too. I taught a psychiatrist how to sail once. We went out for a half-hour, and he didn’t say a word. Finally, he says to me, “Whatever you do, don’t tell my patients about this. You’ll put me out of business.”

Tony Gershon Booso

Retired general contractor, Mill Basin

Photographs by DeSean McClinton-Holland
Danielle Ruttman, Attorney, Brighton Beach.
Michael Paccione, Insurance manager, Toms River, New Jersey    Do you do any other sports?  My family actually races lawn mowers. We have nine of them, and we take them across the country to competitions. My wife and my kids and I all race. So do my in-laws. At our fastest, we can go 45 miles an hour. We’re going to a race in Maryland next weekend where over 100 lawn mowers will be competing.
J.P. Reardon, UX designer, Prospect Heights
Andrew Shabalin, Computer programmer, Brighton Beach
Judith Dahill, Retired high-school librarian, Chelsea
Tom Tolleson  Data engineer, Cypress Hills How did you get into sailing?   I never liked anything about sailing or boats until I moved to Baltimore in 2007. There’s a boat in the Inner Harbor there called the USS Constellation. I was only in the area to meet a friend for dinner, but I started looking at it and realized it was the most amazing thing I had ever seen. I was hooked. After that, it was all boats and all sailing all the time.
Joseph Paccione, College student, Norfolk, Virginia
Daniel Wong, Advertising sales coordinator, Fort Greene
Cooper Voigt, Graduate student, Atlanta, Georgia
Marc Benson, Retired bus dispatcher, Howard Beach
Bill Cook, Retired data analyst, Dover, New Jersey    What are you here for?   The race. I actually belong to another club, the Nyack Boat Club, which is up by the Tappan Zee Bridge. I like this club a lot—it’s a cooperative, which means all the members have to work as well as pay dues. But the reality is there are some clubs that are filled with total assholes. The New York Yacht Club is like that, in my opinion—where it’s like you’d better be a trust-fund kid or you’re not getting in.
Mary Kae Higgins, Realtor, Bay Ridge
Nasim Shamailov, IT director, Bay Ridge
Dino Casella, Retired Postal Service technician, Bay Ridge
Bud Brown, Retired inventor, Fulton, Maryland
Mindy Cashman, Nurse, Toms River, New Jersey
Irv Shapiro, Retired assistant principal, Flatbush    How long have you been a member?  For 60 years. I’ll be 90 next Saturday, and I’m still going. I teach, too. I taught a psychiatrist how to sail once. We went out for a half-hour, and he didn’t say a word. Finally, he says to me, “Whatever you do, don’t tell my patients about this. You’ll put me out of business.”
Tony Gershon Booso, Retired general contractor, Mill Basin

Danielle Ruttman

Attorney, Brighton Beach

Michael Paccione

Insurance manager, Toms River, New Jersey


Do you do any other sports?

My family actually races lawn mowers. We have nine of them, and we take them across the country to competitions. My wife and my kids and I all race. So do my in-laws. At our fastest, we can go 45 miles an hour. We’re going to a race in Maryland next weekend where over 100 lawn mowers will be competing.

J.P. Reardon

UX designer, Prospect Heights

Andrew Shabalin

Computer programmer, Brighton Beach

Judith Dahill

Retired high-school librarian, Chelsea

Tom Tolleson

Data engineer, Cypress Hills


How did you get into sailing?

I never liked anything about sailing or boats until I moved to Baltimore in 2007. There’s a boat in the Inner Harbor there called the USS Constellation. I was only in the area to meet a friend for dinner, but I started looking at it and realized it was the most amazing thing I had ever seen. I was hooked. After that, it was all boats and all sailing all the time.

Joseph Paccione

College student, Norfolk, Virginia

Daniel Wong

Advertising sales coordinator, Fort Greene

Cooper Voigt

Graduate student, Atlanta, Georgia

Marc Benson

Retired bus dispatcher, Howard Beach

Bill Cook

Retired data analyst, Dover, New Jersey


What are you here for?

The race. I actually belong to another club, the Nyack Boat Club, which is up by the Tappan Zee Bridge. I like this club a lot — it’s a cooperative, which means all the members have to work as well as pay dues. But the reality is there are some clubs that are filled with total assholes. The New York Yacht Club is like that, in my opinion — where it’s like you’d better be a trust-fund kid or you’re not getting in. 

Mary Kae Higgins

Realtor, Bay Ridge

Nasim Shamailov

IT director, Bay Ridge

Dino Casella

Retired Postal Service technician, Bay Ridge

Bud Brown

Retired inventor, Fulton, Maryland

Mindy Cashman

Nurse, Toms River, New Jersey

Irv Shapiro

Retired assistant principal, Flatbush


How long have you been a member?

For 60 years. I’ll be 90 next Saturday, and I’m still going. I teach, too. I taught a psychiatrist how to sail once. We went out for a half-hour, and he didn’t say a word. Finally, he says to me, “Whatever you do, don’t tell my patients about this. You’ll put me out of business.”

Tony Gershon Booso

Retired general contractor, Mill Basin

Photographs by DeSean McClinton-Holland

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